and begging his mom to not ask him why, and heartbreaking to watch his mother’s fears grow. After every meeting, I would stay with Jorge and try to get him to talk.
Finally, one day he was able to share that he was being bullied at school. It was so bad he soiled his pants every day. When the teacher suggested he see the school counselor, the counselor told him to “man up.” While I know most of us are thinking, ‘what is with this school counselor?’, let’s keep the focus on Jorge. Jorge did not know what to do, so every day it got worse.
After Jorge was able to share with me what was going on, I reached out to a counselor at another school that I had a good relationship with, and she made a call to Jorge’s school to help in the matter. Because of her call, Jorge’s counselor came back with a new approach and the bullying stopped.